TEACH US TO GAIN WISDOM OF HEART

We have just completed two essential seasons of the Roman Liturgical calendar – Lent and Easter. It was indeed a journey of spiritual awakening for many of us, as we made every effort to deepen our faith. Along the way, many may have felt exhausted and wanted to give up their journey. However, God has empowered us with His strength and grace to continue this journey. Despite all the challenges, He has made us realise that “it is no longer I but Christ who lives in me” (Gal 2: 20) and has given us the spirit of perseverance and courage.

Now we are in the liturgical calendar of Week in Ordinary Time. We began with the feast of the Blessed Virgin Mary, Mother of the Church. This feast was established in the liturgical calendar by Pope Francis in 2018, to be celebrated every year on the Monday following Pentecost. This season of Ordinary Time is the longest of the Church’s liturgical season and it will continue until Advent begins, on the last Sunday of November 2022. Everything will eventually go back to normal after our Parish novena and Feast Day of St Thomas, the Apostle on 3 July 2022. So, how can we do something extraordinary during this Ordinary Time?

On Wednesday, 11 May 2022 Pope Francis’ general audience highlighted the “Catechesis on Old Age” and how to live more significantly and fruitfully during retirement by leaving “a legacy of good, rather than just goods.” Although he was primarily addressing retirees, it is also a reminder to all the young people, to serve the Lord in holiness all the days of our lives. As we carry out the mission of the Lord, it is “a time to leave a good legacy of wisdom, tenderness and gifts for the family and community,”  in which we serve.

 

Every one of us often “thinks of goods, and not of goodness”, even though goodness is essentially the best legacy that we can leave behind for our future generation. The Holy Father has highlighted a biblical example of Judith, who lived for more than 100 years. He encouraged us to look at the Book of Judith and get to know this courageous woman who lived her life “with tenderness and generosity. She was a worthy woman who showed heroism through her faith. In her retirement, she continued to dedicate her time to her family and community through her charitable works”.

 

It is good for all of us to spend our time wisely and prudently. As we carry out our daily commitments, we strive to grow in wisdom, knowledge and understanding and pray that God may “teach us to count our days aright, that we may gain wisdom of heart” (cf. Psalm 90: 12).

 

During the Wednesday audience, Pope Francis was unable to stand to pray the Our Father. He also apologised to the public for not being able to stand to greet the pilgrims while giving his traditional blessings, due to chronic pain in his knee. We pray for the Holy Father - who is now 85-years-old - for his good health and continued guidance of our Most Holy Church.

A SPACE FOR SPIRITUAL REFLECTION

In May 2022, our Parish hosted spiritual formations in 3 different languages for our Parishioners. These sessions enabled participants to enhance their spiritual growth and gain insight to deepen their relationship with God. The focus of these spiritual formations was on the presence of the Holy Spirit as we journey towards Pentecost and develop leadership qualities to guide one another in the various Church ministries.

Presenters were identified from within our Parish community and their efforts will surely be stepping stones for them (and hopefully others too!) to set pathways for learning and growing in confidence as presenters. Spiritual formations such as these provide opportunities for parishioners to learn as well as to teach others. The continuity of spiritual formations will create a space for reflection and deepen our relationship with God.

On 31 May (Feast of the Visitation of the Blessed Virgin Mary to Elizabeth) about 150 parishioners gathered at Our Lady’s grotto, closing the month of the rosary by praying the Rosary and celebrating Mass. Catholics throughout the world have this practice of praying the Rosary during the months of May and October, to give special recognition to our Spiritual Mother. By praying the Rosary, we learn from Mother Mary - to be obedient and docile to the inspiration of the Holy Spirit. She continuously prays for us and grants us her maternal care and protection. She motivates us to bring her Son, Christ Jesus to others and proclaim His greatness by living our lives in holiness through words and service.

From Friday, 24 June to Sunday, 3 July 2022, we will celebrate nine-days of novena prayers, beginning from the Solemnity of the Most Sacred Heart of Jesus and ending on the Feast of St Thomas, the Apostle. The main theme for the Feast is St Thomas, A Saint for Our Times. The feast day committee had their first meeting on Wednesday, 1 June 2022 to plan and discuss the various activities that will take place leading up to the Feast. Several people have been assigned to oversee the tasks that need to be carried out.

For the past two years, there were no celebrations due to the pandemic, but now that a number of restrictions have been lifted, we hope to be able to celebrate the Feast of St Thomas in a more meaningful and spiritual way, with the full participation of our parishioners and community. We pray that St Thomas will intercede for us and help us to experience Christ’s love in our lives.

In his prayer intention for the month of June 2022, Pope Francis invites everyone to focus on family. He wishes that all families “embody and experience unconditional love and advance in holiness in their daily lives”.

Wishing you a very happy and spirit-filled Pentecost to all of you.

COME HOLY SPIRIT, FILL THE HEARTS OF YOUR FAITHFUL,

AND KINDLE IN THEM THE FIRE OF YOUR LOVE!”

LISTENING – THE ART OF DISCERNMENT

The Universal Church commemorates World Communication Day on the Sunday before Pentecost (7th Sunday of Easter) every year. It was established by Pope Paul VI in 1967 to reflect on how social communication - the press, motion pictures, radio, television and the internet - enriches human lives with its values and challenges.

This weekend (29 May 2022) we celebrate the 56th World Communications Day. The Holy Father, Pope Francis has chosen a single word “Listen!” as the theme for this occasion. In every “dialogue, relationship and search for truth in life,” we need to learn and relearn to listen again - “listening with the ear of the heart.”

Listening is essential in our “human relationships”, “communication” and for “information”. Pope Francis asserts that “listening is a dimension of love” and we must always tune in to listening to God. True communication comes from listening - “Listening to several voices, listening to others, listening to the communities and listening to the Church” which leads to the art of discernment. The quality of listening is measured when we “pay attention to whom we listen, to what we listen, and to how we listen.”

Through numerous verses in the scripture, we learn that listening means not only perception of sound but is also a “dialogical relationship between God and humanity.” God continuously speaks to us and invites us to respond by listening to Him. St Paul affirms that “faith comes through listening,” (cf. Rom 10:17). King Solomon was wise because he asked God only one thing to grant him – a “listening heart,” (cf; 1 Kgs 3:9) and whereas St Augustine strongly encouraged us to receive the Word of God by “listening with the heart.”

Another kind of listening, which is the opposite - eavesdropping – means, listening secretly to a conversation, spying on or exploiting others for our own interests. Healthy communication comes in listening to the person face-to-face and approaching with fair, confident and honest openness. There are also a lot of people sharing fake news on social media platforms, and this needs to be avoided. A good journalist or individual should provide “solid, balanced and complete information” in reporting.

Listening to and hearing one another are the most precious gifts we can offer each other. The Protestant theologian Dietrich Bonhoeffer said, “if we don’t know how to listen to our brother or sister, we will soon no longer be able to listen to God either.” The first act of charity is freely giving our time to listen to others, as St James the Apostle reminds us, “Let every man be quick to hear, slow to speak,” (James 1:19).

We pray that all people will discover and rediscover listening and discerning as essential for good communication and give their best of themselves in the Divine plan of God.

(An Extract from the message of the Holy Father for the 56^th World Communication Day 2022).

RESPONDING WITHOUT FAIL

Two weeks ago, I visited prisons in Marang and Dungun in the state of Terengganu. Joining me on this trip were Edmund Bedurus (a varsity student) and Dr Pakiam. Coincidentally, and interesting to know, Bukit Besi Prison in Dungun is known as Pusat Koreksional Dungun (Dungun Correctional Center) and not penjara. Instead of calling it a ‘prison’, it is called a ‘correction centre’ – which certainly sounds less harrowing and more comforting to the ears.

While at the prisons in Terengganu, I met two inmates – one was an African national and the other was a Malaysian man in his 40s. When we met, the man held a Bible in his hand and expressed his love for Christ Jesus, as well as his desire of wanting to become a Christian. Initially, I was a little hesitant to baptise him, however, after seeing him holding back his tears and utter the name Jesus a few times, I decided to have a deeper and longer conversation with him despite noise from the heavy rain outside. We talked, and I highlighted several verses from the bible to him. Finally, I baptised him with the name that he chose for himself (Simon Peter) and gave him his First Holy Communion. He was so happy and immediately wrote his baptism name, date and the fact that he is now a Roman Catholic, in his bible.

On Friday, 20 May 2022, I celebrated Mass with the Migrant Ministry at the Indonesian oil palm plantation workers in Sri Jaya in Maran, Pahang, which is about 100 km away from Kuantan. All these workers are currently undocumented, and they have been living in remote areas of the plantation with their spouses and children, for more than 10 years.

While I was there, I baptised eight children including several infants. These children don’t even have their birth certificates as it is challenging for their parents to get them registered. On behalf of the Church, I administered the necessary Sacraments to them, and I could tell that it brought much joy to the children and their parents.

There are about 10 adults living together who have not been married in the eyes of the Church. I am currently waiting for official letters declaring that they are free to marry and once these have been obtained, I shall then proceed to do the needful.

This community needs our help, and we intend to give them proper recognition of their faith in Christ Jesus and the Catholic Church. They need to be welcomed in the eyes of the Church and we should provide spiritual assistance and not deprive them of the Sacraments and other celebrations, just because of their situation. We should also provide them with basic needs to enable them to hold on to their faith in the Catholic Church.

Pope Francis reminded us on the 105th World Day of Migrants and Refugees (29 September 2019) that we should welcome, rather than remain, unfavourable, insensitive, deafening our hearts towards migrants and excluding them. We should respond to their needs without fail.

AN EXPRESSION OF GOD’S LOVE

We had our Parish monthly BECCOT meeting on Wednesday, 11 May 2022 at 8pm. A total of 12 out of 18 BEC representatives were present at the meeting. This month’s NEWBEC (New Way of Being Church) reflection paper focuses on “The Family As A Sacred Expression of God’s Love.” It invites us to examine the idea of a modern family - the communication, interaction and faith-level of families.

Since 1994, the United Nations has observed International Day of Families (IDF) on 15 May every year.  IDF “provides an opportunity to promote awareness of issues relating to families as well as to promote appropriate action”, throughout all countries. This year, IDF falls on a Sunday, and it will be appropriate for us to celebrate this day together as a family during Mass, by asking Jesus to protect and bless our families.

 

Although we aim to live a perfect family life, very often families face all kinds of challenges, obstacles and trials. Crucial aspects of parenting include the upbringing of children, providing education and basic necessities, as well as nurturing the relationship between family members, failing which, many families may find themselves fragmented, depressed, wounded and in danger of breaking up.

 

The Church calls the family a “little Church” or “domestic Church” and places Jesus at the center. Many families may find that the atmosphere within their home is dominated by negative influences such as prolonged use of digital gadgets which may hinder our moral and faith life. Parents are responsible for their children’s physical, mental and spiritual health by bringing God’s holiness into their lives. In the Book of Joshua, we learn that he made a firm decision for his family - “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord,” (Joshua 24: 15). We make our choice known - who are we going to serve - either the One true God or false gods?

We all need a family. Without one, we may find it difficult to call any place “home”. Home is where the heart is, where we live together, and share each other’s joy and sorrow. Every individual in the family should play a part by loving each other unconditionally, especially in times of tension, anxiety and uncertainty. During these times, we should turn our listening ears towards each other and be supportive, in order to build a strong and faithful family. Every member has a responsibility to strengthen family values and be courageous in practicing the virtues that lead to peace and harmony at home. 

 

This International Day of Families, it would be good if we would take the opportunity to walk down memory lane together by looking at family albums / wedding albums or by going out together for a meal or just sightseeing. Pursuing enjoyable activities together will surely enhance family bond and bring cheerfulness within the home. Let us make a difference in our families with the freshness of Christ’s love, harmony and peace. We seek the intercession of our Lady of the Rosary of Fatima to pray for our families - to refresh, revitalise and motivate us to pray and stay together always.