As October ends and November begins, we notice changes around us. After more than two months of the haze crisis, we are once again enjoying clear blue skies and bright sunshine. Meanwhile, the monsoon season is fast approaching and will likely bring heavy rainfall to the East Coast. This gradual change in seasons invites us to pause and remember those who have gone before us, and renew our hope in God’s promise of eternal life.
As Catholics, we begin November by celebrating the Solemnity of All Saints on 1 November, followed by the Commemoration of All the Faithful Departed on 2 November. All Saints Day reminds us of our call to holiness and the joy of heaven, while All Souls Day invites us to remember and pray for our departed loved ones, entrusting them to God's loving mercy.
At our Church of St Thomas the Apostle, Kuantan, many Parishioners and friends have recorded the names of their departed loved ones in the Book of Remembrance, placed at the Breakfast Corner. Today, it contains approximately 6,000 names. Each name represents a life, a family, a story and a love that death cannot erase. They were our parents, grandparents, spouses, relatives and friends.
Our Catholic faith teaches us that death does not end our relationship with those who have died in Christ. We believe in the communion of saints and the resurrection of the dead. Our prayers can help those who die in God’s grace but still need purification before entering heaven. As Scripture reminds us, it is “a holy and wholesome thought to pray for the dead” (2 Maccabees 12:45). Our prayers express our enduring love for them and our trust in God’s saving grace and mercy.
Throughout November, we will place the Book of Remembrance on the altar during our weekday and weekend Masses. At weekend Masses, we will also sing the Requiem hymn as we unite in prayer for them. The greatest gift we can offer our departed loved ones is the Holy Mass, together with our personal prayers, sacrifices and acts of charity.
I encourage everyone to visit your loved ones’ graves or columbarium niches. Clean the area, place flowers, light candles and pray for them. If possible, bring your children along. Share stories about their grandparents and relatives, reminding them of the love, sacrifices and good examples they left behind. In this way, we teach the younger generation to honour the departed and cherish our Catholic faith.
As we pray for the departed souls throughout November, we are reminded that our earthly journey is temporary. Let us make the time God gives us to love generously, forgive sincerely, serve faithfully and grow in holiness. We do not know when the Lord will call us home, but we can prepare ourselves by living each day close to Him.
Let us entrust every departed soul to God’s infinite mercy, trusting in Christ’s promise: “I shall raise him on the last day” (John 6:40).
Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon them. May they rest in peace. Amen.





























