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Saturday, 27 January 2018

CATHOLIC MASS ETIQUETTE

Make a commitment to yourself, your family and to God, by attending Mass every week. But, how exactly do you prepare yourself for Mass on Sunday?

Fast Before Mass. It is Church law that one fasts for at least 1 hour before receiving Holy Communion. The purpose is to help us prepare to receive Jesus in the Eucharist. Don’t chew gum in in Mass. It breaks your fast. It is distracting and it is considered impolite. Every Mass you attend deserves your complete respect and reverence.

No Food and Drink in Church. Bringing a snack into church is not appropriate. The exceptions can be for small children. We need to set the church apart as a place of prayer and reflection.

Dip Your Fingers in the Holy Water and make a sign of the cross on entering and leaving the Church. The Holy Water reminds us of the Sacrament of Baptism and unites us with Christ.

Dress Modestly and Appropriately. Put on your SUNDAY BEST. As Catholics, we believe that God comes to meet us at every Mass. Ask ourselves, “Is this the best I can wear for Mass? Is this appropriate and respectful?”

Show Up Early for Mass. Would you arrive late to a dinner date? Of course not. The same applies when you attend Mass. Getting to Mass early allows you to pray and prepare yourself better. Make sure you are seated by the time the bell rings, and please don't stand outside the Church once the Mass starts.

Mobile Phones Should Never Be Used in Mass for Calls or Texting. Please keep your mobile phones and beepers turned off or set to vibrate mode during Mass. If you have an emergency situation, and need to answer the phone while Mass is going on, please walk out of Church to do so. If you are using the phone or iPad for readings or prayers - this is acceptable - but try to be discreet.

When We Enter and Leave Church, Genuflect or Bow Reverently Towards the Tabernacle or Altar. By doing so, we acknowledge that He is our Lord and our God. If someone is physically unable to genuflect, then a bow is sufficient.

Please Be Quiet While in Church. Once you enter the church, remember that it is not the time or place to visit and chat with those around you. If you must talk, do so as quietly and as briefly as possible. Remember that your conversation might be disturbing someone who is praying.

No Bulletin or Publication Reading During Mass. Imagine inviting a guest to your home and before or during the meal, they decide to read a magazine or glance at a newspaper instead of talking to you. That is what happens in God’s house when you read the bulletin or any other publication. Remember that it is important to prepare for Mass. Familiarise yourself with the readings in advance, and it will help you to understand and reflect on them.

Do Not Leave Early. We should stay till the end of the closing prayer and the recessional hymn that accompanies it. While there are certainly exceptions to this guideline, most who leave early don’t need to and ought not to.

Pray After Mass. It is a good custom, though not required, to offer a prayer of thanksgiving after Mass is over. We encourage you to leave church quietly so you won’t disturb others who want to stay and pray.


We need to keep all these Catholic Mass Etiquettes in mind before entering into church and participating in the Mass. This will allow us experience Mass in a more meaningful and prayerful manner, deserving of our Lord and Saviour.

JESUS AND THE EVIL ONE

The gospel speaks about the unclean spirit where this evil spirit says “Have you come to destroy us now?” (Mt 1:24). Jesus is rebuking the unclean spirit and commanding it to leave the man alone.

Evil is everywhere. Evil comes to all people. We learn in the gospels that demons are real. They exist. The evil one fears Christ’s power. Jesus teaches with authority because He is the Son of God. He has come to teach us the way to the Kingdom of Heaven.

There are only two spirits that controls us – God’s Holy Spirit or Satan’s unclean spirit. Which spirit is in control over you? We need the Spirit of Jesus to cleanse us, purify us and lead us on the path of healing and restoration.


Jesus doesn’t use His power to show off or to demonstrate His physical strength but He uses it to restore and rejuvenate, to redeem and to love! His power is seen in His teachings. He demonstrates His power in healing. Jesus shows His authority by performing a miracle. Jesus wants us to know that there is hope for everyone.

Sunday, 21 January 2018

A WALK TO REMEMBER WITH FR EDWARD SOOSAY

In January 1997, upon completing my second year at the seminary, Fr William (who completed his first year) and I were assigned pastoral work at St Joseph’s Church, Sentul for a month, with the late Rev Fr Edward Soosay. Our main task at the time was to take stock and inventory of all the backdated church collections, and clear the storerooms.

However, one Monday morning, Fr Soosay invited me to Mentakab, as he wanted to run some personal errands. I was a bit anxious about the trip - because Fr William didn’t accompany us as he was on leave - but I went anyway. Fr Soosay and I left for Mentakab after the morning Mass in his Toyota Corona. Along the way, we chatted about a few things, but most of time we were silent.

On our way back to Sentul from Mentakab, I enquired and clarified a few matters pertaining his priestly life. I spent the next two hours listening to his sincere and heartfelt sharing. As I was a young seminarian at the time, I found his thoughts and opinions enlightening. It deepened my understanding of the priesthood and its various roles. Upon approaching Sentul, I remember saying to him, “Father, if I were you, I wouldn't have joined the priesthood. I would have enjoyed my life!” He simply laughed at me.

The one-month spent with Fr Soosay was certainly an experience I will not likely forget. My priestly calling was enhanced and I got to know him well enough to call him a friend. He always appreciated my work and was always positive about me. He served as a priest and servant of God without qualm. I admire him for his deep love of God and his faithfulness to the priesthood.

Archbishop Julian Leow announced Fr Soosay’s demise in our Clergy WhatsApp group on 10 January 2018 around 6:30pm. It saddened me, because I had met him two days before Christmas at our parish house. I was curious to know the details of the wake and funeral Mass. In fact, some parishioners enquired about the arrangements and strongly encouraged me to bring the wake to our parish, as Fr Soosay was the first son of St Joseph’s Church – ordained by Archbishop Dominic Vendargon on 8 January 1966. He served our parish from 1991 – 2000.

After giving it much thought, and despite knowing that it would be tedious work over the next few days, I made a request to Archbishop Julian to have Fr Soosay’s body moved to St Joseph’s Church. The day after he returned to the Lord, mass was held for his repose at the Little Sisters of the Poor Home (LSP), attended by 11 priests. After mass, his body was transferred to Sentul, where he lay in wake for parishioners and families to pay their last respects. His funeral was held on Saturday, 13 January 2018 with the reverence deserving of faithful priest.


My dear parishioners, I appreciate all your hard work in ensuring everything went well throughout the wake and funeral. We will always cherish the warm memories of Fr Edward Soosay and count ourselves blessed to have had him as our shepherd. He remains in our prayers always. It was a meaningful tribute we gave - for his years of service to Jesus Christ, to his Church and to all the parishioners he served.

Saturday, 20 January 2018

INHERIT THE KINGDOM OF GOD

“The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, and believe in the gospel,” (Mark 1:14-15).

God wants us to have an understanding and a revelation of His Kingdom which will help us to understand who we really are and who we are in Christ.

Why God created us and placed us on the earth? He wants us to enjoy the best that heaven has to offer while we are doing God’s will on the earth.

Everything that opposes God comes from the kingdom of darkness. The Kingdom of God is all about defeating the kingdom of darkness. Jesus presides over an everlasting Kingdom.

God’s Kingdom is not only in the future, but is present and accessible today. The Kingdom of God has dominion, power, and a standard of righteousness. We are to be part of God’s Kingdom and we accept Him as our King.


God’s glory is coming and the world will be changed by the glory and presence of Him. He is going to restore us and His Kingdom message will change families, neighborhoods, cities, and nations.